The body knows what the mind is afraid to admit…

 

Do you want to

•explore hidden desires with your partner?

•heal from emotional pain while enjoying your body?

•make your partner glow in the dark?

•know you can give and receive love?

 

You need to learn to give a good flogging. Why?

 

Like this:

Maybe you’ve seen pictures of people…

…at their most beautiful and most vulnerable.

These fantasy images of pain and pleasure are a representation of your desire to dance with your shadow.

They show you a way out of your predicament.

These pictures point to a direct experience of the mystery.

What is The Mystery?

The mystery of this universe is its beauty. There is great beauty all around. But often it seems impossible to see the beauty, let alone enjoy it.

If your looking for the mystery, the mystery is looking for you, too. Don’t let a dull reality get in your way.

It happened to me.

I got a job working as a lawyer. I had the nice vintage Porsche, the big house, the suits.

Something got lost.

It’s easy to get lost on the road to love, mystery, and adventure.

Free your body and your mind will follow. In this life, you have a body. Your body is your sensual connection to the mystery of life.

My eyes were opened.

The problem is, we’re living in a sanitised world of work, money, and entertainment. And fear.

The culture we live in is a reduction of reality.

From the time we're children, we’re taught to be ashamed of our bodies.

We’re taught not to think of ourselves as a part of nature.

That way, we get alienated from the innate beauty that lives inside us.

Living has become about distracting yourself.

“We have become the genitals of our machines” (Marshall McLuhan)

We’re disappearing into a world of synthetic pleasures. The real world is disappearing. You’re not enjoying that, or are you?

No wonder everyone’s depressed.

Why can’t we just enjoy the beauty that we’re given freely?

This sterile life is designed to disconnect you from ‘the divine you’ that lives inside your body.

Even in our most intimate moments, we’re not really present.

The vulnerable body is your way back to your humanity.

We need to reclaim our bodies, our minds and our hearts.

Spiritual healing can come through somatic experience.

What matters is using the wisdom of the body to reconnect with the mystery that lives inside of you.

“Life is about your experience and what you do with that experience.” (Max Igan)

 What we all want is

• freedom to learn and grow

• being loved for who you are

• rediscover your best self

• heal from (emotional) pain

If you haven’t felt good for a long time, maybe you’ve gotten used to feeling that way?

Your system is hardwired for survival. Your brain loves your comfort zone! It loves habits and sameness as these are proven to be safe. After all, your heart is beating, and you’re breathing, aren’t you? Your brain doesn’t care if you’re happy or not. Alive is all that matters

But what kind of life is that?

You need to live up to your full potential.

In order to change, you need to keep what’s good, and release what no longer serves you.

You have to take charge and tell your brain what it is that you want.

You need to learn to enjoy what you really are: a loving, sensitive creature living in many dimensions.

Your body is the unconscious brain. It is your gateway to all of reality.

You want to connect to the mystery that lives inside of you. That is when the real adventure of life begins.

We are loving creatures, we were meant to feel the sensations of life.

What you want is to feel the mysterious fire of life burning within.

From the time we’re children, we’re taught to ignore the full magic of the entire spectrum of reality.

It’s time to reclaim the full pleasure of the mystery that lives inside of you and wants to show itself.

Your body is the portal into a better reality.

We were designed to interact with nature. Including our own.

If you stay inside your comfort zone, life becomes a comfortable prison. If your mind won’t allow you to move out of your comfort zone, you need to set your mind free before you can find purpose and meaning.

“When we refuse to feel, the anti-depressants win…” (Jonathan Richman)

So, how do you set your mind free?

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You’re The One manifesting as the many. But you’re fooled into believing you should be content with the crumbs of reality you’re allowed.

You are God in service to God. You need to discover what that means, and enjoy it.

You don’t have to be fearless, you just need to show up. Spiritual healing can come through finding a physical connection. It’s time to get real.

And so… I offer you a really great flogging

I will show you what you really are.

This is my gift to you. It can be a cathartic experience.

Meditative Flogging is like a fine mist of sensations on the body. It’s a rhythmical rain of strokes, touch and slaps, building to a climax.

A sensation of spinning, falling, and losing control - like riding a rollercoaster.

Surrender to the floggers on your body, and discover the mystery of the love that lives inside of you, and that moves all around you.

The body is your subconscious brain.

The body has remembered all that came before - all the hurt, the ecstasy, the fear, rage, sadness, and joy. Flogging helps all the emotions that need to be expressed come out.

When you stop living half a life, you can step into your real self. You can finally let go of feelings and thoughts that no longer serve you. You can begin to enjoy your body of love.

The whip sets you free.

Whether you’re giving or receiving, you can’t hide. Instead, the whip shows you who you really are.

What you’ve been searching for is right here.

 
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1. Forget about judgement and prejudice

Reality is better than fiction.

2.

Whipping can be a spiritual practice.

Let’s find out, shall we?

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3. Get to know your desires

…and your limits…

4. It doesn’t make a difference if you’re a man or a woman

No. You are the difference.

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5. Sense your body coming alive

Undress, take your place. Take a deep breath…

6. Go on an exciting adventure

The whip is your friend…

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7. Feel calm and satisfied

When all’s said and done.

 

 UM DA - Meditative flogging offers ritual, concentration, and healing. Through meditative flogging you can move in and through the energy of your true self, so that you can release what no longer serves you, and you may awake into a lighter, brighter being.

There is so much in all of us that feels lost, suppressed, rejected, denied, or unloveable. It’s time to go on a journey of discovering what makes up your true potential.

In UM DA - Meditative Flogging we work with loving awareness, universal energies, conscious touch, and the kinetic power of flogging to increase vitality, and find inner harmony.

See what people are saying…

Fyke

“…I have no idea what it is you do that makes me feel so calm every time…”

Tua

“I think this is really an art…”

Kulvinder

“…I really, really enjoyed it. It was so spiritual for me…”

Toermalijn

…loved, held, and exhilarated…”

Adrian

“…I feel liberated…”

Arati

“…I sighed, screamed, cried and laughed, wow…”

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Your journey of

discovery has only

just begun.

Let me help you

on your path.

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Use this form to schedule your appointment:

Services & Pricing

 
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I offer the following services.

The rates below are per person. Please contact me regarding rates for group sessions.

 …or pay as you like, pay what you can...

  • UM DA Meditative Flogging - €160 per session

  • Reiki - €95 per session

  • Tea & Conversation - €40 per hour

  • Private tuition UM DA flogging - €210 per hour

  • Group workshops’ prices vary, see announcement page
     

 
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UM DA - Meditative Flogging is a deep healing tantra and shamanic practice.

It can help you to…

•Explore your desires

•Heal from emotional pain

•Feel at home in your body

•Know you are worthy of love

•Receiving a flogging can help you on your spiritual path

•Reach deep into the body and the mind of you and your partner

Question: does it hurt?

Answer: UM DA - Meditative Flogging is not about pain. It’s about using sensations to help the body go beyond the physical body - and set your mind free.

It’s about exploring and discovering. It’s about letting go of your limiting beliefs, and sinking deep into your mind. It’s about reaching a trance-like state.

Will it hurt? Maybe. A bit.

Question: is there any sex involved?

Answer: UM DA - Meditative Flogging can be a sensual experience, but sex can be very distracting. The body is much like a musical instrument - you don’t want to labour on the material, you want to make music.

So, if by ‘sex’ you mean genital touch? No.

Question: does the person who receives a whipping have to be naked?

Answer: UM DA - Meditative Flogging uses whips, floggers and canes to help reach a trance-like state. The whips are instruments to create sensations on the body. The less clothes, the more direct the sensation is felt; and so, the more interesting and enjoyable it is.

Does the person receiving a flogging have to be naked? No. Most people prefer being naked or mostly naked, though.

Sounds good?

Book your appointment today:

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Who is it for?

In our time-poor, stressed-out lifestyles, it’s the most wonderful thing to surrender to another’s expertise and sense of timing.

UM DA - Meditative Flogging creates the feeling of a voluptuous panic. It reveals all the hidden layers, and shows you what you really are. You’re a body of love.

The tantra of flogging helps you to go beyond the body, and experience the fulness of you.

So, if you’re curious about using desire to go beyond desire… then maybe this is for you.

Meditative Flogging has nothing in common with fetishes, dungeons and the shady fantasies of Hollywood.

If you’re looking for ‘Fifty Shades’, or just want to learn about kinky sex - then this is not for you.

Meditative Flogging is about reconnecting with your inner beauty.

It’s about changing this reality into something better. You don’t actually have to do what you’re told; you can do what you desire.

We’re going to change the world one person at a time. When you become whole again, the world becomes a better place.