Question 3: Pleasure and pain are closely connected, but sometimes you need to heal from emotional hurt before you can experience pleasure. As a general rule, do you prefer giving pleasure or do you prefer to help others heal? Note: in this question, by ‘pleasure’ we mean a physical, sensual experience. On the other hand, your interest could lie in helping your partner heal from the emotional pain that’s stored in the body. Click the option you think best describes you.