Conclusion 3: Receiving a good flogging is what you need, in fact, it’s what you long for! You enjoy surrendering your entire being to someone else. Even so, you think it’s scary, and you want to make sure you’re in good hands. Yet, when you feel safe, you love to show yourself as the spiritual being on a human path that you are. You enjoy showing your raw emotional state, and you find it pleasurable to give yourself over to that kind of exploration. Once you’ve decided to surrender yourself body and soul, you know you’re going to love the experience. To you, pleasure is healing and healing is pleasure. You know you’re only in this body once, and you want to really know what that means.