Sacred work or sexual practice?
People often ask whether this is sacred work or sexual practice, as if those categories are mutually exclusive. The truth is more nuanced - and more beautiful.
Yes, this work can be deeply arousing.
Bodies are involved, vulnerability is present, intimacy is created.
But when you witness someone connect with a departed loved one during a session, or watch decades of trauma dissolve into tears of relief, or see someone discover love for their own body for the first time - you understand you're in the presence of something sacred.
The sexual and the spiritual aren't opposites; they're different expressions of the same life force.
What matters isn't whether the body responds with arousal, but whether the soul responds with transformation. These testimonials reflect both dimensions - the profound healing and the undeniable aliveness that happens when we honor the body as a gateway to transcendence.
This is a revolutionary approach
“I’m scared to say what attracts me and what excites me. I realised I have to learn who I am, because otherwise I can never grow as a person. And I want to grow. Now, I realise I have a body. A body that makes it possible to reach any goal. And there’s so much I want to do. I want to feel I can be whatever I want to be. Also, because it just feels so very good.”
- Natalia, ‘Sexify’
It’s a labour of love
This life is your one chance at happiness. Prejudice will get you nowhere.
See what people with actual experience are saying.
Then decide for yourself: do you want these kinds of experiences in your life?
Kulvinder
“Before I went, I was a bit scared. I’ve never done anything like this before... He took the time to really intuitively connect, read my energy… see what it was that I really needed… He gently worked with me, and made sure I felt safe... And the flogging itself, I absolutely loved! I really, really enjoyed it. It was so spiritual for me… It’s been a week since then, and I feel it really shifted the mental space I was in. I would recommend it to anyone!”
Melissa
“Loved, held, and exhilarated - these are the words that come to mind when I think of my sessions with you. Exploring trust, exploring limits, and just surrender, both physically and emotionally, makes every moment intense and precious - living fully in the here and now. Thank you for what you do, and for your loving presence.”
Fyke
“At times it was hard to let go, and to just allow what was happening. Luckily, your hands were always there, soothing and calming, even though I have no idea what it is you do that makes me feel so calm every time.”
Adrian
“I didn’t expect anything. I just saw the video’s… It took a while for me to be comfortable, but then I became comfortable… It went from soft to a bit harder, and I enjoyed that. Towards the end, it was quite hard, and that was also enjoyable… I feel liberated. As my mind was going to different places, and how the lashes changed, it brought me into a different space… It was like a different experience. I would do it again… There is nothing like this. It’s liberating!”
Rob
“It was like a psychedelic experience. When your floggers started to come down on my back, I realised that I really want to, need to be hit. All I wanted was to have my body float on the sea of your strength.”
Arati
“My first meditative flogging session ever. What a ride I made, guided by this super warm, safe and talented person. He created such a holding space for me to feel so much deeper than my body. Using different floggers, whips, things I don't know the name of, his hands and his body (only to support me), I could see myself from the outside sometimes. Feel my shield on certain parts of my body because I protect the emotions underneath. And they came out, raw and delicious at the same time. I sighed, screamed, cried and laughed, wow 🙏.”
I feel cleansed, relaxed and reborn.”
Rosanne
“I feel deeply touched, and I’m just incredibly impressed by what happened, what you did with me, what we shared, and what you gave me. To be this vulnerable was unbelievably beautiful, intense, exciting, and emotional.”
Tua
“In the beginning I was just standing there. I’m not used to this. Then I started thinking I was a musical instrument… There were a lot of surprises… In the beginning, I could get a look, then I was blindfolded, and I sank into myself… What I found interesting, was this rhythmical flogging. You get into a sort of trance… I sank even deeper. I got into a state of mind where for a moment I thought that suddenly, somehow my deceased wife was there. She was present… I think this is really an art… [Would you recommend this to people?] Yes! Especially to people who are not used to this, and don’t want to go to a dungeon, or such…”
Elena
“I’d just like to thank you for seeing me and holding me. We talked briefly, and yet I instantly found we had a good, easy connection. You reached deep inside, and what’s left of me is doing amazingly!”